Sean Blanda - The Other Side is not Dumb
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Sean Blanda - The Other Side is not Dumb

What if we assumed that the other side also has their reasons for acting the way they do. Valid reasons. “We cannot consider ourselves ‘empathetic’ only to turn around and belittle those that don’t agree with us.” Our reactions to the Brexit anyone? If you can’t make their point for them, you don’t truly grasp the issue. (thanks Arnout for the find)

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Mark Manson - The Virtue of Doubt

As a doubter, I’m of course naturally drawn to the title of this article. I like the term “super belief”: A belief that is always true and re-enforces itself. Besides that these beliefs somewhat annoy me, Mark posits that they’re actually dangerous. So keep on doubting! Whether this all is true or not, I don’t know yet.

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Ryan Holiday - The Real Reason We Need to Stop Trying to Protect Everyone’s Feelings
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Ryan Holiday - The Real Reason We Need to Stop Trying to Protect Everyone’s Feelings

Yes, him again. He warns us about trying to be overly politically correct. Not hurting everyone’s feelings sounds like a good idea. Or at least a well-intended one. But, since there is always somebody who could possibly be hurt, it’s a slippery slope. Following its reasoning, it leads to censorship and limits freedom of speech. And, a more empowering way to protect someone, is to let them make their own decision to be offended or not.

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Chris Corrigan - The complex world is hard
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Chris Corrigan - The complex world is hard

Chris Corrigan is een Art of Hosting practitioner. Hij helpt bedrijven omgaan met complexiteit en de onzekerheid die daarbij komt kijken. Hij beschrijft hier mooi wat klanten graag willen hebben: het antwoord, de zekerheid, een strategie. De dingen die het gevoel van controle geven. In plaats daarvan levert hij z’n klanten tools om om te gaan met de onzekerheid van complexiteit.

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